Anupam Kher, the veteran Indian actor, has recently opened up about his marriage with actress and politician Kirron Kher, admitting that it "isn't the best in the world" and that he has "hurt her". In a candid interview, Kher, who has been married to Kirron since 1985, shared his views on compatibility and the realities of long-term relationships.
Kher stated that he doesn't believe in the concept of compatibility, considering it overrated. He referenced older generations and their ability to make marriages work, despite differing views and personalities. He admitted that his relationship with Kirron isn't always smooth and that he even forgot her birthday recently.
The actor acknowledged that after many years, the initial spark in a romantic relationship can fade, and maintaining it can be "exhausting". He confessed that he has hurt Kirron at times, but did not elaborate on the specifics.
Anupam and Kirron's relationship began as a close friendship. They were friends for about 10 years before they got married. Kirron was previously married to Gautam Berry, and Anupam had also experienced a failed relationship. Kirron has a son, Sikandar Kher, from her first marriage, whom Anupam embraces as his own. In the interview, Anupam also mentioned that he misses not having a child of his own with Kirron. While he cherishes his bond with Sikandar, he expressed that he sometimes feels the absence of experiencing a child growing up with Kirron.
Kirron and Anupam's marriage began after a defining moment in Calcutta while they were involved in theatre. Both were in other relationships when they were best friends. Kirron has said that she knew everything about Anupam, including which girl he was trying to impress. She later divorced her first husband, Gautam Berry. Anupam had also been married before, to Madhumati Kapoor in 1979, but they divorced after a few years.
Anupam Kher, born on March 7, 1955, has had a prolific career in Hindi cinema, with over 540 films to his credit. He received Padma Shri in 2004 and Padma Bhushan in 2016 for his contributions to Indian cinema and arts. Kirron Kher has been a Member of Parliament from Chandigarh, belonging to the BJP.
Despite the challenges and imperfections, Anupam and Kirron Kher have maintained their marriage for over three decades. Their journey reflects the complexities and compromises inherent in long-lasting relationships.
