After 27 years of portraying Carrie Bradshaw, Sarah Jessica Parker is bidding farewell to the iconic character, acknowledging the complex relationship she and audiences have had with her. In a heartfelt Instagram post, Parker reflected on the journey, recognizing the highs and lows, the love and frustration that have defined Carrie's presence in her life and the lives of viewers.
Parker acknowledged that Carrie Bradshaw has been a dominant force in her professional life for nearly three decades. "Carrie Bradshaw has dominated my professional heartbeat for 27 years. I think I have loved her most of all," she wrote. She further recognized the multifaceted relationship many have with the character, stating, "I know others have loved her just as I have. Been frustrated, condemned and rooted for her". Parker expressed gratitude for the "symphony of all those emotions," calling it "the greatest soundtrack and most consequential companion".
Parker's journey with Carrie began in 1998 with "Sex and the City" and continued through two films and the recent revival series, "And Just Like That…". Throughout this time, Carrie has become a cultural icon, known for her fashion sense, her friendships, and her often-complicated romantic life. Parker has been praised for her portrayal of Carrie, bringing depth and vulnerability to the character.
Over the years, Carrie has faced criticism for her choices, with some viewers labeling her as selfish, immature, or financially irresponsible. Parker, however, has defended Carrie, pointing out that female characters are often judged more harshly than their male counterparts. She noted that male leads can be "a murderer" and still be loved, while Carrie is condemned for her mistakes. Parker stated that Carrie is "an extraordinarily decent and good person—an extremely devoted friend, she's generous of spirit and time, in all she has to offer".
Parker has also spoken about the double standards faced by women in the public eye. She observed that people are often quick to "forgive our male leads" while being critical of women's mistakes. Despite any criticisms, Parker said she never felt "frustrated" in the role. Parker has emphasized Carrie's positive qualities, describing her as "hugely loyal, decent, reliable, a really good friend, generous, available, present, comforting, giving of herself in big, in small ways, that are private and public, to her and among her friends".
In her farewell message, Parker reflected on Carrie's evolution, noting that she "aged, got wiser". She acknowledged Carrie's flaws and missteps but also highlighted her strengths and resilience. Parker wrote that Carrie "crossed streets, avenues, Rubicons, so it seemed. She broke hearts, heels, habits. She loved, lost, won, tripped, leaped, fell short and into puddles". She also noted Carrie's unwavering love for New York City, her devotion to her friends, and her passion for life.
The decision to end "And Just Like That…" after season three was a collaborative one between Parker and showrunner Michael Patrick King. King explained that while writing the final episode of season three, it became clear that it was a "wonderful place to stop". Parker echoed this sentiment, calling the show "all joy, adventure, the greatest kind of hard work alongside the most extraordinary talent". She expressed gratitude to the cast, crew, and fans for their support throughout the years.
As Carrie Bradshaw's chapter comes to a close, Sarah Jessica Parker looks back with fondness and appreciation. While acknowledging the character's complexities and the varying opinions surrounding her, Parker ultimately celebrates Carrie's impact on her life and the cultural landscape.
