Bollywood celebrities have diverse opinions on the topic of cheating in marriage, influenced by their experiences and generational perspectives. Here's a look at what some prominent figures have said:
Kajol and Karan Johar: Compatibility over Love
On a recent episode of "Two Much with Kajol and Twinkle," featuring Karan Johar and Janhvi Kapoor, the topic of infidelity sparked a lively debate. Kajol and Karan Johar emphasized the importance of compatibility in a marriage, arguing that love fades if compatibility is absent. Kajol stated, "Love is the first thing to fade after marriage if you aren't compatible. Compatibility is what actually matters and holds you together after the wedding bells". Karan added, "The thing about compatibility is over the years you find out how compatible you are".
When the discussion shifted to physical versus emotional infidelity, Karan Johar declared, "Physical infidelity is not a deal breaker". Kajol seemed to agree with this sentiment.
In the same show, Kajol revealed her secret to a happy marriage with Ajay Devgn is “partial deafness and selective amnesia”. She said that the secret to their long-lasting marriage is "forgetting certain things about your partner and sometimes things they said that you didn't hear. It's very important".
Twinkle Khanna: "Raat Gayi Baat Gayi"
Twinkle Khanna also weighed in on the debate, suggesting that attitudes toward infidelity evolve with age and experience. Echoing Karan Johar's sentiment, she implied that physical infidelity might not be a deal-breaker, saying, "We're in our 50s, she's in her 20s, and she will get into this circle soon. She hasn't seen what we have. Raat gayi baat gayi (What's happened, has happened)". Khanna's statement suggests a pragmatic view, where "what's done is done," and life moves on.
Janhvi Kapoor: "The Deal is Broken"
Representing a younger perspective, Janhvi Kapoor firmly stated that physical infidelity is a deal-breaker. In response to Karan Johar's statement that physical infidelity isn't a deal breaker, Janhvi said, "No, the deal is broken". She maintained that both emotional and physical cheating are equally wrong.
Neetu Kapoor: "Men Should Be Given a Certain Amount of Freedom"
In an older interview that has resurfaced, Neetu Kapoor discussed Rishi Kapoor's alleged infidelity. She stated that she used to get upset about his affairs but eventually adopted the attitude of letting him do as he pleased. Kapoor said, "I feel that men should be given a certain amount of freedom. They are flirtatious by nature. One cannot bind them down". She also added, "I know his family comes first so why should I bother about his flings. They are just passing fancies. He is too dependent on me, he will never leave me". These comments have sparked controversy and been viewed by some as justifying infidelity and promoting patriarchal values.
Dilip Kumar: Regret and Remorse
The late Dilip Kumar's life also saw a period of infidelity. Despite being deeply in love with his wife, Saira Banu, he married Asma Rehman in 1981. However, he soon realized it was a "grave mistake" and felt immense guilt for hurting Saira. In his autobiography, Kumar described the episode as one he wished to forget. He later divorced Asma and recommitted to Saira, remaining devoted to her until his death.
Other Perspectives
- Priyanka Chopra: In an old interview, Priyanka Chopra stated that she would "probably beat the shit out of him first, lock him up, and then I don't know what I'd do. I'm probably the kind of person who'd get violent" if her husband cheated on her.
- Deepika Padukone: Deepika Padukone has said she doesn't endorse infidelity.
- Bipasha Basu: Bipasha Basu has stated that infidelity is a deal breaker for her.
- Suhana Khan: Suhana Khan has said that she would dump a cheating boyfriend because she is the type of girl who strictly likes a 'one-woman man'.
- Sunita Ahuja: Govinda's wife, Sunita Ahuja, has expressed her views on men cheating on their wives, mentioning, “I would like to fold my hands and tell women that don't ever say that your partner is innocent (doesn't cheat). If he does it, it will become so bad and no matter how hard you try to get rid of her, she won't leave him for years. Even if you leave him, that woman won't”.
- Maheep Kapoor: Maheep Kapoor revealed that Sanjay Kapoor cheated on her early in their marriage. She chose to work through it, prioritizing her child and family.
The varying viewpoints of these Bollywood figures highlight the complexity and subjective nature of infidelity in marriage. Generational differences, personal experiences, and evolving societal norms all play a role in shaping these perspectives.
