Recent comments made by music composer Ismail Darbar regarding his daughter-in-law, actress Gauahar Khan, have sparked considerable debate about women's roles, particularly in marriage and motherhood. Darbar, known for his work in Bollywood films like "Devdas," stated in an interview that he doesn't support Gauahar continuing her career after marriage and having children. He emphasized that he comes from a "backward family" with traditional values.

Darbar cited his second wife, Ayesh, as an example, noting that she gave up her career, which earned her ₹5 lakh per month, to prioritize family. He contrasted this with Gauahar's choices, though he also conceded that he doesn't interfere with her decisions, stating that only his son, Zaid Darbar, has the right to tell Gauahar not to work. "I can't tell her not to work; that right belongs only to Zaid," he said. He also admitted he doesn't watch Gauahar's performances because he fears he "will not be able to tolerate what I see, and if I am not able to tolerate what I see, I will confront them".

In response to these remarks, Gauahar Khan has not issued a direct statement addressing her father-in-law's views. Instead, she posted a cryptic message on her Instagram story that reads, "Raising a boy right is more important than saving for his wedding" . This message has been widely interpreted as a subtle yet powerful retort to Darbar's traditional stance.

Gauahar married Zaid Darbar in 2020, when he was 20 years old. The couple has two sons, Zehaan, born in 2023, and Farwaan, born earlier this year. Gauahar has continued to work throughout her marriage and after becoming a mother, balancing her career with her family responsibilities.

Ismail Darbar's statements have ignited discussions about patriarchal mindsets and the expectations placed on women after marriage, especially within traditional family structures. While Darbar claims he doesn't interfere with Gauahar's choices, his expressed views reflect a belief that a woman's primary role should be that of a homemaker and caregiver. Gauahar's indirect response underscores the importance of raising sons with progressive values that respect women's autonomy and choices.

The controversy highlights the ongoing tension between traditional values and modern aspirations, particularly for women in India. Gauahar's career and public persona stand as a testament to her independence and determination to navigate these expectations on her own terms.