Hema Malini and Dharmendra, one of Bollywood's most iconic on-screen couples of the 1970s, share a love story that has captivated and, at times, stirred controversy. Their relationship, which began on the sets of films like "Tu Haseen Main Jawaan", culminated in marriage in 1980. However, their union was far from conventional, as Dharmendra was already married to Prakash Kaur, with whom he had four children.
In a candid interview with Lehren Retro, Hema Malini opened up about her feelings on her "unusual" family dynamics. "Nobody wants to be like that; it happens. Automatically, what happens, you have to accept," she stated, reflecting on the fact that she and Dharmendra do not live together. Bobby Deol, Dharmendra's son, recently revealed that his father is currently living with his first wife, Prakash Kaur, while Hema Malini resides in her own home.
The veteran actress revealed that she had envisioned a "normal family" with a husband and children. "Every woman wants to have a husband, children, like a normal family. But somewhere, it went out of the way…" she said. Despite this, Hema expressed that she does not dwell on it or feel bad. "I am happy with myself. I have my two children, and I have brought them up very well," she affirmed.
Hema and Dharmendra's wedding in 1980 created shockwaves. They were a beloved on-screen pair, but Dharmendra's marital status added complexity. They married, but Dharmendra never divorced Prakash Kaur. Rumors circulated that the couple converted to Islam to marry, which both stars have denied.
In past interviews, Hema has spoken about missing Dharmendra's company. While she wished for more time together, she accepted their circumstances. She acknowledged Dharmendra's deep love for her, which made their unique situation worthwhile.
Despite living separately in Mumbai, Hema chose to live with dignity and independence, never wanting to cause trouble. She expressed satisfaction with Dharmendra's role as a father to their daughters, Esha and Ahana. She told News 18, "I do not feel bad about it, nor am I sad. I am happy with myself. I have two children and I have raised them very well. Of course, he (Dharmendra) was always with me. No husband and wife like to live separately, but sometimes circumstances are such that a person has to accept it". She also holds Prakash Kaur and her family in high regard, choosing not to discuss their personal lives publicly.
Their love story began on the set of "Tu Haseen Main Jawaan". Hema knew she wanted to marry someone like Dharmendra. However, Hema's family initially opposed their relationship and tried to arrange her marriage to Jeetendra. According to Hema's biography, her mother once tried to convince her to marry Jeetendra instead of Dharmendra. Dharmendra even crashed Hema and Jeetendra's potential wedding ceremony.
Hema Malini's biography, "Hema Malini: Beyond the Dream Girl," provides insights into her personal life and marriage. She doesn't regret marrying Dharmendra, even though it caused controversy. She raised her daughters with respect and without interfering with Dharmendra's first family.
Despite the unconventional nature of her marriage, Hema Malini has maintained a positive outlook. She values the time she spent with Dharmendra and doesn't believe in complaining. She is happy with her life and the choices she has made.
