Veteran actress Shabana Azmi recently shared a lighthearted glimpse into her married life with acclaimed poet and lyricist Javed Akhtar, revealing a habit of his that playfully "drives her mad". The revelation came during their first-ever joint advertisement, where their off-screen chemistry and dynamic were evident.
Azmi humorously described Akhtar's tendency to remain glued to his seat, contrasting it with her own active nature around their home. "He doesn't move from his seat, which drives me mad," she quipped, adding, "He complains that I am always moving around the house and incapable of sitting still!". This playful banter highlights the couple's comfortable and candid relationship, a bond that has resonated with fans who appreciated their natural vibe in the commercial.
Married since 1984, Azmi and Akhtar have often spoken about the importance of maintaining individuality and mutual respect in their relationship. Akhtar has previously noted that living with a strong-minded woman requires understanding and compromise, emphasizing the need to treat each other as equals.
Beyond the occasional domestic annoyance, Azmi has also publicly addressed more serious challenges in their life together. In a past interview, she opened up about Akhtar's struggle with alcoholism, describing it as a difficult period for both of them. Akhtar himself has spoken about how he used to consume a bottle of liquor every day, realizing later that his habit was unsustainable. Azmi recounted a pivotal moment in London when Akhtar declared his decision to quit drinking, a commitment he has maintained since then, showcasing his incredible willpower.
Despite facing such challenges, their bond has remained strong. Azmi has expressed that staying busy and sometimes apart actually helps to keep their relationship fresh. Both come from similar backgrounds, with poet fathers with ties to Uttar Pradesh, and see each other as best friends. This friendship, coupled with mutual respect and understanding, has been key to their enduring relationship.
In an earlier interview, Azmi also shared that she initially maintained a distance from Akhtar due to rumors of his arrogance. However, her perception changed after he displayed a deep understanding and appreciation for her film "Sparsh," recognizing his genuine nature.
The couple, known for their outspoken views on socio-political issues, exemplifies a partnership built on love, respect, and a shared understanding of each other's quirks and strengths. While Akhtar's stationary habit might "drive Azmi mad," it's clear that their connection runs far deeper than minor annoyances, solidifying their status as one of Bollywood's most admired and enduring couples.
